Why I Built Together We Lose (and what makes it different)

I didn’t set out to build a website. I set out to get healthier.

I started logging my weight every day and measurements every month. I kept notes on what I ate, when I walked, and how I felt. Patterns began to appear—slowly at first, then clearly: certain habits nudged the scale one way or the other within a couple of days.

I wanted more than a lonely graph. I wanted context: How do people like me typically progress? What happens after a week of evening meals? Does a daily walk matter over time? That’s how Together We Lose began.

What makes this different

• Compare with people like you. We show anonymized cohort curves—by age band, sex, country, starting BMI band, medication and dose—so you can see where you stand without judgment.
• Behavior tags → insights. Simple tags like walk, late dinner, alcohol, travel turn into 48–72-hour impact cards you can actually use.
• Privacy first. We bucket counts, suppress small samples, and never show individual logs publicly.
• Kind, not punitive. We reward consistency and learning—not “biggest loser” bragging.

What you can expect

• A fast, mobile-friendly logger you can install to your home screen.
• Personal trendlines and weekly velocity.
• Cohort comparisons that grow smarter as the community grows.
• Optional teams, streaks, and gentle challenges.

How you can shape this

We’re launching with a Founders offer: early access, a Founders badge, and lifetime features free. Founders get a direct line to the roadmap—tell us what to build next.

CTA: Become a Founder →

Disclaimer: Community data helps with awareness and motivation, but it isn’t medical advice. Please work with your clinician on any treatment decisions.